Oral sex is one of the favorite practices of women. However finding a lover who knows how to use his tongue and enjoy it is not easy.
The first thing you should know is that we all have different tastes. But physiologically and anatomically we share some generalities. For these reasons, I dare to tell you about how we like oral sex to women.
LICKING THE CLITORIS PROPERLY
Stimulating the clitoris is very simple. The recommendation is to do it as if you had a finger or a teat between your mouth. But be careful yo do it not too hard because depending on the sensitivity of the woman, it can become painful and uncomfortable.
Learn to read her movements, when she tries to withdraw your head it is because she does not feel comfortable. The key is to talk and know the degree of intensity and speed that she wants. Find out what she likes best so do not hesitate to ask questions.
MOVEMENT OF THE TONGUE
The movements of the tongue can be fast or slow and although for some it is transcendental to lick the clitoris, you must learn to stimulate the vagina completely. Do it in a delicate way.
If you put your fingers in the vagina do it only when its is lubricated, otherwise it will hurt. It is ideal to use the fingers: ringfinger and middlefinger, although there are women like me who prefer the use of a toy.
MAINTAINING THE RYTHM
The orgasm will not be reached if the stimulation is intermittent. A good frequency, delicacy in the touch and repetitive sessions, with good movements will be well received.
A COMFORTABLE POSTURE
Women hate to stop oral sex to change position. Having an orgasm needs concentration and stimulation. It is important that from the beginning you choose a position in which both feel comfortable.
INNOVATE AND HAVE FUN
Play with water-based lubricants or look for alternatives such as flavored oils.
Temperature changes are an excellent idea. Put some ice in the mouth to cool the tongue and make massage around the vagina. Experiment using menthol candies, they provide an ideal sensation to dilate the pores of the vagina, also you can use hot oils or masturbate to warm up.
AVOID DOING THINGS THAT CAN DISTURB
- Blowing in the vagina.
- Biting the clítoris.
- Being untidy.
- Feeling disgust.